I have contemplated what to say and how to go about saying what my life looks like right now for a while right now. I am elated with entering 2019 but I also never thought that I would be writing this post today. I can’t tell you how many messages I receive on how to deal with a broken heart after a breakup. Well friends, this is the moment where the girl with all of the words had to soak in her own advice. This is a breakup for NYE.
“The One.” The blunt statement that we dream of from the moment we started to understand what that was. First off, if you are reading this, just know that I am preaching right back to myself while I wait. Let’s talk about what we are supposed to be doing while we are waiting for “The One.” Who in their right mind likes to sit around waiting for “The One,” to knock on our door, carry us away on the perfect white horse? Even though I am patient, I certaintly don’t like waiting. We all know that the he probably won’t show up on a white horse and we definitely don’t have any clue when he will show up.
How to feel loved? So I wanted to see something so I started typing into google, “how to feel” and bam! The first suggested search was “how to feel LOVED.” Sadly, I am not shocked. So many of us are searching for the kind of Love that doesn’t leave us and makes us feel loved continually. Just like a google search, this kind of love may be a temporary fix and satisfaction. To you, whoever you may be, let me tell you the real and long-lasting secret to your question”how to feel loved.”
Hey! This is a guide for the Single gal!
Let’s get right into this today! Today you will learn all about how to manage being single in this guide for the single gal. So many times being “single” in society has been looked down upon. To you my sister and current single gal, you are NEVER alone and you should never think that being a “single gal” makes you any less worthy of finding someone.
Happy first day of this Valentine’s Day series! I am SO glad you have stopped by! Today is the day where you learn the truth about what he really thinks of you! It’s February, the month where many of you dread and wish to skip over. It’s the season where some of you are thinking, “what does he really think of me?” I have SO much to share with you! I oh so desperately want you to hear these words during this season where some of you become so sad. Listen to me sister, this is just another day where HE is in control. HE is JESUS and not the boy you’re crushing on, not that failed relationship, or that guy that doesn’t deserve you. HE has got you and this is what HE really thinks of you.
Hi, y’all! How’s it going? I thought I’d let ya inside my life a bit. I want this to be a corner on the internet for you to come, have some coffee and feel refreshed reading the words of a fellow sista in knowing that you’re not alone. We are so much alike and you need to know that. A relationship in where we better one another is what I aim for, and I pray that this could be a place for that. I love sharing instances and events in my life as they happen with you, in hopes of encouraging you through whatever lesson I learn or ought to learn.
On that note, here we go.
Hi again, so do any of you ladies recall sitting at sleepover talking until the early morning about weddings, boys, and what you were going to grow up and be? When I was little I didn’t like going to a sleepover but I LOVED thinking about who I was going to be when I was older. It’s so cool to sit here now and chat with you guys about that. So, were those boys that you and your girls talked about good guys and more importantly were you hoping that they would be so in love with Jesus when you finally got to meet them?
Hello loves! I have been super annoyed lately on seeing guys around me “pursue” their so called “bae.” First of all, she is not your bae. Is that even a word? haha. I can’t help but to have wanted to live in the time where dating was a respectable act that you looked forward to as a young lady. I dream of the day where Old School Dating takes over the world. Dudes, this is for you.
I’m not sure when the first time I heard someone say, “relationship goals” or state something along the lines of “goals”. What about this crazy, non-real word, “fleek”? It could of been a comment on Facebook, Instagram or simply just in public. It doesn’t matter where I first heard these crazy statements, but I know for sure that it has gotten out of control. Way out of control.